It sounds like you might be dealing with some challenges related to sex or intimacy. There can be many reasons why someone might experience difficulties in this area, ranging from physical health to emotional well-being, relationship dynamics, or stress.
If you’d like, I can provide general advice or resources, or you can share more details if you’re comfortable. It’s important to approach these concerns with care, and sometimes talking to a medical professional or therapist can be helpful too. What specifically is on your mind?